Why are you you?

I went to the local UU fellowship this morning to light a candle for Joe. I sat in the back and listened, and it was just like in Anchorage except I didn't know anyone, so it was weird. But they have the same hymnals and the same opening song, and the same "hmm" that everyone always murmurs when something meaningful is said, so it was sort of comforting. Maybe next week I'll have a nametag. Maybe then I'll feel at home.